Over fifty years after its release, Carl Reiner’s cult comedy “Where’s Poppa?” has lost some of its transgressive edge, but not a bit of its ability to make you cringe.
A dark 1970 comedy about Jewish sons and Jewish mommas, dementia and the terrors of the phrase “put me ‘in a home,” this satire is perhaps most famous for a downbeat and twisted ending that isn’t seen on most versions of it circulating — a senile mother (Ruth Gordon) asking her son (George Segal) for the hundredth time, “Where’s Poppa?” He at last answers that “Here’s Poppa,” as they’re in bed. Together.
And the film is most infamous for being the first time American moviegoers heard the familiar New York phrase “c–ksucker” on a film soundtrack.
The down-market nursing home, a rambling, rundown private residence run by a cynical Paul Sorvino in his first screen appearance, still stings.
“It’s tough getting help,” he grouses. “Nobody wants to take care of old people!”
An unhappy wife (Rae Allen) berates her husband (Ron Liebman) for dashing out at night to help his brother care for their delusional, impossible-to-manage mother for the umpteenth time and then blocks the door.
“Get away from that door or I’m gonna CHOKE your child.” Oh yeah. He means it. See the still shot above.
But the most shockingly funny bit would probably never pass muster today, a late night mugging that turns to comical sexual assault, with the repeat mugging Central Park victim (Liebman, always searingly funny) baited into taking on the rape by the amused and amusing Black gang (pre-“SNL” Garrett Morris is the most famous face in the lot) who regard their “regular” victim as “a friend.”
“This your first rape?”
Segal stars as Gordon Hocheiser, the son who lives in their roomy but dated and cluttered Central Park West apartment with his dotty mom (Gordon, immortalized in “Harold & Maude”). Her clingy madness is battering his once-promising legal career, as he keeps showing up to defend people he’s barely met or researched.
We see an assault case against a not-so-peaceful peace protester (Carl’s son Rob Reiner) who whacked off the toe of an aged Army officer (Barnard Hughes), a brawl that began with the younger man raging about “How many ‘g–ks and ‘krauts’ we killed?” Col. Hendricks takes the stand to ghoulishly brag about how many “g–ks and krauts” he killed.
Gordon’s mom chases off every caregiver, has pinched or punched many a hairdresser. And Gordon is desperate for help. Then, an angel dressed like Florence Nightengale (Trish Van DeVere, making her screen debut) applies. Gordon swoons. They click and spoon over her frank discussion of her abortive “32 hours” long marriage.
But Mom is still around, on a demented tear, to muck it all up.
The brothers bicker in that distinctly New York version of brinkmanship — see “choke your child” above.
As things go quickly if not demonstrably from bad to worse — Nurse Louise owns up to how she’s not a “very good” nurse, etc. — brother Sidney’s late night park muggings turn cinematic.
“Remember Cornel Wilde?” Yeah, he was just in “The Naked Prey.” “You better start praying ’cause you’re gonna be naked” and chased through the park, as Wilde was in Africa in that film.
Gordon’s efforts to shock his mother into a stroke include waking her, bellowing and growling, in a gorilla suit. That suit is all he offers naked Sidney after that naked Central Park chase. And a New York cabbie would still rather pick up a guy in a gorilla suit than a Black domestic servant when it comes to late night cab rides.
Reiner, already a comedy legend thanks to “The Dick Van Dyke Show” and his long “2000 Year Old Man” party record partnership with Mel Brooks, did an efficient job of adapting Robert Klane’s novel (screenwriter Klane wrote the script), staying out of the way of some laughs, amping up the energy of the arguments and courtroom scenes (Vincent Gardenia plays another hapless Hocheiser client).
The “plot” is a tad slapdash and the finale — no matter which version you see (Tubi has the “happier” ending) — is abrupt and less than satisfying.
Segal vamps the hell out of his fear and loathing of his mother and instant lust for her prospective new nurse. Gordon is more passive here than in her iconic turn in “Harold & Maude.”
But Liebman, Hughes, Reiner and the hilarious Comic Park Five (Morris, Joe Keyes Jr., Arnold Williams, Israel Lang and Buddy Butler), gang go hilariously over the top and ensure that this comedy’s biggest laughs endure through the ages.
You’d have to tweak that “Your first rape?” scene if you remade the film today. Well, maybe you would. Maybe lean harder on the Manhattan “Jewish momma/Jewish son” dynamic post Eptstein/Weinstein and Woody, or abandon it as the still-amusing stereotype it and so much else in “Where’s Poppa?” is.
But if easy to see the path that Reiner’s comedy was headed on, dark and kind of Mel Brooks Lite in terms of intentional satiric offense, destined to turn dizzy (“The Jerk”) and gloriously sentimental (“Oh God!” and “All of Me”) before he retired and rested on laurels that 98% of Hollywood would envy.
Rating: R, nudity, profanity, adult subject matter
Cast: Ruth Gordon, George Segal, Trish Van Devere, Ron Liebman, Barnard Hughes, Vincent Gardenia, Joe Keyes Jr., Rob Reiner, Garrett Morris and Paul Sorvino
Credits: Directed by Carl Reiner, scripted by Robert Klane, based on his novel. A United Artists/MGM release.
Running time: 1:24